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It’s been a long time since I’ve discussed, anything relating to dreams or being a dreamer. Last night while in deep thought, the words Suffering from Success, Memoirs of A Dreamer dropped into my spirit. Now I wouldn’t be right if I didn’t tell you, that I’ve watched Memoirs of A Geisha like seven hundred times.
I haven’t watched that movie in a couple of years though. So it was kind of odd that I’m about to use the story line. The subject matter and concept was breeding ground for this title. Now ya’ll know I’m about to dispel myths today, right? It wouldn’t be me if I didn’t get you to thinking about the heart of the matter. You can’t happy your way into success. I am going to show you how success comes with many character building circumstance and situations that most won’t share.
Suffering from Success, Memoirs of A Dreamer
Listen I come bearing real news, real good news. There are many Suffering from Success. Then you have those who want the prize, but rarely want to go through the trials and tribulations that comes with it. This means you may be met with resistance and imitators, attempting to rob the vision of those who have a dream, a vision or Kingdom assignment.
Just like the characters of Memoirs of a Geisha, you will come across people who play the same roles in your journey to success. Zhang Ziyi who played Sayuri, had a dream of getting out the hood (foster care). She was sold off for money by her father, after her mother died suddenly. Now her sister was with her, but unfortunately they were separated. Sayuri was left to fend for herself.
The road to your destiny can be a lonely time. You will often be left in unfamiliar environments. The powerful thing about a dreamer is you can adapt, and your survival skills kick in. The same happened with Sayuri. She was now in a house where Geisha’s lived. She admired and dreamed of being free, and walking among the elite.
When it was her time to taste the fruits of success, along came the characters. You will also be met with role players like the ones I am about to discuss. Allow this post to help you discern those that will come along during your triumph to success. Use this as an opportunity to strengthen your character, build your confidence and open your senses.
Suffering from Success Memoirs of a Dreamer
Characters and Role Players
Sayuri – The Dreamer
Life can start out rough for dreamers. Keep your faith, and remember there’s purpose in the pain. Nothing that comes easy lasts, and nothing worth having comes without a fight. As much as we want to assume that our dreams will come without work or adversity, it’s just not true. Just know that in the end you WIN!
Hatsumomo – The Mentor
Many believe that you are to choose your mentor or coach. In all reality, it’s the other way around. Your mentor is special because they will see something in you that others won’t. They’ll take a risk on you, and have the keen discernment to know your dream even when you haven’t fully disclosed it to them. They will be the one making the choice to invest in you. That’s another story for another day.
Characteristics of a good mentor can be the following:
- They have been through something similar to you, and have overcome.
- They will come and confirm your dream, not try to change it to meet the standards of normality.
- They will fight alongside with you during the journey.
- They will stand when you are weak, and strengthen you through prayer and encouragement.
- They will challenge you out of your comfort zone.
- They will not be “YES” men/women.
- They will know the route you need to take and not take the easy way out.
These are just a few of the traits of a mentor or what I like to call a midwife. They will be in the birthing room with you when you push out your dream/vision.
Mameha – The Adversary
You will always encounter someone who is afraid of your success. Funny thing is, you may not have problems with this person. In the movie Sayuri started out admiring and looking up to Mameha. Instead of feeling honored by the presence of Sayuri, Mameha felt threatened. Allow this type of person to confirm that you have what it takes. The threat wouldn’t come if there wasn’t something inside of you, that caused her fear of losing her own identity. Mameha was successful at the top of her game and doing the dagum thang.
There was not need to feel that way about Sayuri, but she did.
When you face this kind of adversary do the following:
- Kill them with kindness.
- Continue with your training.
- Stay focused, as that person will attempt to send you distractions.
- Stay humble, as this adversary will also attempt to humiliate you.
- Never stop believing.
This is just the foundation needed to build your dream upon. During this time, you will acquire the necessary skills, endurance and tenacity required to live your dream.
Pumpkin – The Side Kick
Everyone has the fence riding side kick. Pumpkin was weak and needed consistent reassurance. She started out as a friend of Sayuri’s. But when the fire came, she quickly jumped ship. She became Mameha’s flunky and was used as a pawn to hurt Sayuri. This is the distraction I spoke about earlier. Because most dreamers are loving, it can be hard to see someone treated as a mere mole in a game.
Here’s how to handle the side kick:
- Stay cordial. Your character will teach this person how to fight fire with faith.
- Allow this person to watch you climb your mountain to success. They in turn will become the witness to how God works in your life. Kinda like free publicity. They’re important to the cause.
Side kicks don’t really hate you. They hate themselves for not being strong enough to live and fulfill their own dreams.
Memoirs of a Dreamer
Character and Role Players
Nobu – The Imposter
There are so many opportunities that will come that may look like it’s the gateway to your dream. Nobu wanted Sayuri bad, and was willing to pay a high price to have her. Sayuri was aware that this was not the dream she had in mind, but entertained Nobu. Saddened by the thought of not being able to have her dream, she never expected he would be the road that lead her to her dream.
Don’t be discouraged when you have to take opportunities that don’t fit your dream. These are chances to be re-assured of what you want. This time will enlightened you to all the things you don’t want in your life.
This is down time when your discernment is sharpened. You get to see each character for who they really are. It’s training ground.
Chairman – Your Dream
Nobu lead Sayuri right to the Chairman. Since Sayuri was entertaining Nobu, it put her in the position to be noticed by the Chairman. What seemed like a bad situation, actually turned out to be the path that introduced her to her dream. The Chairman was everything she wanted. Everything she had dreamed about. When things got really bad it was the Chairman who saved her.
What can we learn here about your dream?
Just when you are all out of time, out of faith and out of patience, your dream shows up. You’ve encountered just about every bump in the road. You may have even thought you would never see your dream manifest. Just at the right time you’ll see that which you had the faith to believe.
Here is what the characters, circumstance and situation prepares you for:
- Your dream when it arrives
- Your discernment to recognize it
- Your tenacity to wait for it
- Your trust with your mentor
- Your character to maintain it
- Your patience to keep believing know matter what
I know this may have been a long post. I might have lost some along the way. But I believe, that whomever got the message is well on their way to seeing their dream come true. Don’t shoot the messenger. I’m just the writer of Suffering from Success, Memoirs of A Dreamer. I’d love to know what you were able to get from this story below.
About the Author:
Maisha Guy, Los Angeles native and bluegrass Kentucky transplant, is no stranger to overcoming adversity and turning tragedy into triumph.
Maisha rose from the challenges of her early life and is now the CEO of
Generation Next Marketing and a Certified Business Analyst. She has built an empowering organization to expose and promote Kingdom Businesses worldwide.
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